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Not born for hospitality? Get out of the way! Or better – develop yourself and improve the industry

Writer: Stephan Busch
Stephan Busch
Mar 15, 2019
4 min read

Every year thousand of newcomers drop out of the hospitality career they started in hotels and restaurants in Germany alone. Worldwide hundred of thousand leave the industry every year because they can’t deal with the stress, harsh conditions, long hours, bad pay and family unfriendly environment. And don’t forget all those who open their own business, buy a franchise or invest all savings in restaurants and have to file for bankruptcy in the first two years.

Why?

It clearly puts the blame on the employee or the one having the courage to open his own business and fails. “If you can’t stand the heat , don’t go into the kitchen.” We all have heard this one many times. So it raises the assumption that they either choose the wrong profession or simply can not deal with hard work.

And rightfully it is essential that you need to have been born with the ability to become a great communicator, team player and leader to be successful in hospitality. You need to learn a lot and be stress resilient or be able to develop this traits. You need to learn to enjoy hard work. Opening your own business you need to know the numbers too. Hospitality is a different world.

Are we getting the looser out of the way?

No! We are actually loosing the ones we need. The ones all hotels and restaurants need. We are loosing more good ones than bad ones. Yes - it raises the assumption that they either choose the wrong profession or simply can not deal with hard work.But we know: Assumptions are the Mother of all f…”. Reality is we are keeping more bad then good ones.

Again – why?

Instead of being hospitable we expect our management and supervisors nowadays to sit behind their computers and work the numbers. Answer the mail, supervise reputation management and get the numbers right. We have to keep the administrators and cut on the service. Cost saving is more important then long term revenue. We educate our management to think like hedge fond managers and bankers. We are not. Or at least we should not be.

Hiring staff we tell the fairy tale of hospitality while the world is changing further away from it. This leaves more and more the ones better at spread sheets and reciting standard operating procedures in charge then the ones that are good on the floor, face the guest in good and in bad times and do the hard work.

People don’t leave because they are looser they leave because they feel demotivated, disengaged and neglected. On top of this come the conditions that have been created. Some recent news and headlines:

About restaurants

“I firmly lay the blame for the failures with the senior management teams of these businesses ( restaurants)! Let me be quite clear, I don’t blame the hard-working employees in the restaurants who are just following the strategy and orders passed down from above.

It is quite clear to me that many of the senior management of these businesses are simply incompetent and very out of touch with what is happening in the UK dining out sector”

Jonathan Butler

July 25, 2018

About franchising

“Basically, what you are doing with franchising, you are getting mom and pops working for free, working below the minimum wage,” Jundt said in a question-answer session. “It may be a dirty little secret that no one want to talk about, but that’s what’s going on.”

Jan 17, 2019Marcus Jundt CEO Kona Grill

About payments in restaurants

Billion-dollar pub empire Merivale, owned by Justin Hemmes, cranky about having to pay staff properly

“thousands of young workers paid well below the current hospitality industry award.”

Paul Burns, a radio newsreader who used to work at a Merivale establishment, claimed workers were forced to hand over half of their tips each week.

Shannon Molloy

news.com.au

JANUARY 22, 2019

About cruise lines

Carnival Fires 150 Crew Members from India for Protesting Low Cruise Ship Wages

By Jim Walkeron July 2, 2012

You are not born for hospitality? Fair enough, better to change for something you like. At the end people should be happy with their lives. If you are born for hospitality and put in the long hours and hard work you should at least get the reward for it and not being just used. Please stay! Develop - learn and do the changes that we need! We are not loosing the looser we are loosing the ones that are disappointed how they get treated. My respect for all the business in our industry that are treating their employees fair. They develop staff that one day will hopefully will change things.

This article was written while I was looking for good examples of ethical behavior in hospitality. I found too many bad examples. I found good ones too and will write about them with pleasure. Just got distracted and angry by all the bad news. To finish on a positive side: There are good ones!

Author: Stephan Busch, Academic Director at the State University for the Humanities Moscow RGGU, Faculty of Tourism & Hospitality earned his Master Certificate in Hospitality Management from Cornell University, USA.

Stephan Busch has an invaluable and diverse experience in launching operations, business development and service training- for hotel and cruise companies in Asia, Europe, Canada and Russia.

www.itsjusthotelsservice.com, contact@itsjusthotelsservice.com

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Training & Lecture Catalogue

Trainings- und Vortragskatalog

It´s Just Hotel Service  ·  Stephan Busch

Hotels  ·  Restaurants & Catering  ·  Cruise Ships  ·  Clubs  ·  Universities

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About this catalogue / Über diesen Katalog

EN — This catalogue presents practical trainings and lectures for hospitality and cruise companies, as well as universities and schools. The programmes combine field-tested operational know-how (hotel openings, fine-dining service, cruise hotel operations, club management) with the skills the market demands in 2026: guest-experience excellence, emotional intelligence, service recovery, AI and digital fluency, leadership and staff retention. All formats are available as group trainings, workshops, one-on-one coaching, and keynote lectures, and can be tailored to each client.

DE — Dieser Katalog präsentiert praxisnahe Trainings und Vorträge für Hotellerie- und Kreuzfahrtunternehmen sowie Universitäten und Schulen. Die Programme verbinden praxiserprobtes operatives Know-how (Hoteneröffnungen, Fine-Dining-Service, Hotelbetrieb auf Kreuzfahrtschiffen, Clubmanagement) mit den Kompetenzen, die der Markt 2026 verlangt: exzellente Gästeerfahrung, emotionale Intelligenz, Beschwerdemanagement, KI- und Digitalkompetenz, Führung und Mitarbeiterbindung. Alle Formate sind als Gruppentrainings, Workshops, Eins-zu-eins-Coaching und Keynote-Vorträge verfügbar und individuell anpassbar.

I. Service & Guest-Experience Trainings

I. Service- und Gästeerlebnis-Trainings

1.  The Art of Anticipation: Five-Star Service Beyond the Standard

DE:  Die Kunst der Antizipation: Fünf-Sterne-Service jenseits des Standards

Format: Group training / workshop

Audience / Zielgruppe: Front-of-house, F&B and front-desk staff in hotels, fine dining and cruise

Suggested duration / Dauer: 1–2 days

EN — Teaches staff to read guests and anticipate needs before they are voiced — the difference between correct service and memorable hospitality. Covers observation, timing, body language, personalised touches and the discreet luxury of being one step ahead.

DE — Vermittelt dem Personal, Gäste zu lesen und Bedürfnisse vorwegzunehmen, bevor sie geäußert werden — der Unterschied zwischen korrektem Service und unvergesslicher Gastfreundschaft. Behandelt Beobachtung, Timing, Körpersprache, persönliche Aufmerksamkeiten und den diskreten Luxus, einen Schritt voraus zu sein.

 

2.  A Complaint Is a Gift: Service Recovery That Builds Loyalty

DE:  Eine Beschwerde ist ein Geschenk: Beschwerdemanagement, das Loyalität schafft

Format: Group training / workshop

Audience / Zielgruppe: All guest-facing staff and supervisors

Suggested duration / Dauer: 1 day

EN — A practical service-recovery method that turns complaints into loyalty. Participants learn the steps of acknowledging, empowering front-line decisions, recovering gracefully under pressure and following up — with role-plays drawn from real hotel, restaurant and cruise situations.

DE — Eine praxisnahe Service-Recovery-Methode, die Beschwerden in Loyalität verwandelt. Die Teilnehmer lernen die Schritte des Anerkennens, der Entscheidungskompetenz an der Front, des souveränen Reagierens unter Druck und der Nachbetreuung — mit Rollenspielen aus realen Hotel-, Restaurant- und Kreuzfahrtsituationen.

 

3.  Emotional Intelligence at the Front Line

DE:  Emotionale Intelligenz an der Service-Front

Format: Workshop

Audience / Zielgruppe: Front desk, concierge, F&B and guest-relations teams

Suggested duration / Dauer: 1 day

EN — The most in-demand hospitality skill of 2026. Staff develop self-awareness, empathy and emotional self-control to handle demanding guests, cultural differences and high-pressure moments while protecting their own wellbeing and that of the team.

DE — Die gefragteste Hospitality-Kompetenz 2026. Die Mitarbeiter entwickeln Selbstwahrnehmung, Empathie und emotionale Selbststeuerung, um anspruchsvolle Gäste, kulturelle Unterschiede und Drucksituationen zu meistern — und dabei das eigene Wohlbefinden und das des Teams zu schützen.

 

4.  The Cultural Code of the Guest: Serving an International Audience

DE:  Der kulturelle Code des Gastes: Internationale Gäste souverän bedienen

Format: Group training

Audience / Zielgruppe: Hotel, cruise and catering teams serving international guests

Suggested duration / Dauer: 1 day

EN — How guest expectations differ across cultures — greeting, dining, personal space, hierarchy and complaint behaviour — and how to adapt service without stereotyping. Built on the trainer’s experience across Asia, Europe, Canada and Russia.

DE — Wie sich Gästeerwartungen je nach Kultur unterscheiden — Begrüßung, Essen, Distanz, Hierarchie und Beschwerdeverhalten — und wie man den Service anpasst, ohne zu stereotypisieren. Basierend auf der Erfahrung des Trainers in Asien, Europa, Kanada und Russland.

 

5.  The Silent Signals: Body Language & Non-Verbal Service

DE:  Stille Signale: Körpersprache und nonverbaler Service

Format: Workshop

Audience / Zielgruppe: All guest-facing staff

Suggested duration / Dauer: Half day – 1 day

EN — Posture, distance, eye contact, gesture and grooming — the signals staff send before they speak. Participants learn to project warmth, competence and discretion, and to read the unspoken signals of guests.

DE — Haltung, Distanz, Blickkontakt, Gestik und Erscheinungsbild — die Signale, die Mitarbeiter senden, bevor sie sprechen. Die Teilnehmer lernen, Wärme, Kompetenz und Diskretion auszustrahlen und die unausgesprochenen Signale der Gäste zu lesen.

 

II. Management & Leadership Trainings

II. Management- und Führungstrainings

6.  From Colleague to Leader: First-Time Hospitality Supervisors

DE:  Vom Kollegen zur Führungskraft: Erstmalige Vorgesetzte in der Hotellerie

Format: Group training + coaching

Audience / Zielgruppe: Newly promoted supervisors and team leaders

Suggested duration / Dauer: 2 days

EN — Equips newly promoted supervisors with the essentials: delegation, giving feedback, leading former peers, handling conflict and basic financial literacy (cost, labour, upselling). Practical, hands-on and scenario-based.

DE — Rüstet frisch beförderte Vorgesetzte mit dem Wesentlichen aus: Delegation, Feedback geben, ehemalige Kollegen führen, Konflikte lösen und betriebswirtschaftliche Grundlagen (Kosten, Personal, Upselling). Praxisnah und szenariobasiert.

 

7.  Keeping Your Best People: Staff Retention & Engagement

DE:  Die Besten halten: Mitarbeiterbindung und Engagement

Format: Management workshop

Audience / Zielgruppe: Department heads, GMs, HR and owners

Suggested duration / Dauer: 1 day

EN — Addresses the industry’s biggest challenge — turnover and ‘quiet quitting’. Managers learn to spot early disengagement, build motivation beyond pay, design recognition that works and create schedules and cultures that keep good people.

DE — Behandelt die größte Herausforderung der Branche — Fluktuation und „stille Kündigung“. Führungskräfte lernen, frühe Demotivation zu erkennen, Motivation jenseits der Bezahlung aufzubauen, wirksame Anerkennung zu gestalten und eine Kultur zu schaffen, die gute Mitarbeiter hält.

 

8.  Leading Across Generations & Ages in Hospitality

DE:  Führen über Generationen und Altersgruppen hinweg in der Hotellerie

Format: Management workshop

Audience / Zielgruppe: Managers, HR, owners

Suggested duration / Dauer: Half day – 1 day

EN — How to lead teams that span four generations and to value experienced staff over 60 as an asset, not a liability. Covers communication styles, mentoring pairings, knowledge transfer and fair, age-inclusive recruitment.

DE — Wie man Teams führt, die vier Generationen umfassen, und erfahrene Mitarbeiter über 60 als Gewinn statt als Last schätzt. Behandelt Kommunikationsstile, Mentoring-Tandems, Wissenstransfer und faires, altersinklusives Recruiting.

 

9.  Hire for Character, Train for Skill: Recruiting & Onboarding

DE:  Charakter einstellen, Fähigkeiten schulen: Recruiting und Onboarding

Format: Management training

Audience / Zielgruppe: GMs, HR, department heads

Suggested duration / Dauer: 1 day

EN — Why attitude beats experience in service roles, and how to interview for it. Covers structured interviewing, trial shifts, red flags, and an onboarding programme that makes new hires productive and loyal in their first 90 days.

DE — Warum Haltung in Servicerollen wichtiger ist als Erfahrung — und wie man gezielt danach auswählt. Behandelt strukturierte Interviews, Probearbeit, Warnsignale und ein Onboarding-Programm, das neue Mitarbeiter in den ersten 90 Tagen produktiv und loyal macht.

 

III. Specialised & Niche Programmes

III. Spezial- und Nischenprogramme

10.  Pre-Opening Excellence: From Empty Building to Full House

DE:  Pre-Opening-Exzellenz: Vom leeren Gebäude zum vollen Haus

Format: Consulting-led training / coaching

Audience / Zielgruppe: Pre-opening teams of new hotels, resorts and cruise ships

Suggested duration / Dauer: Tailored programme

EN — A rare, field-tested programme for opening teams. Covers the critical-path timeline, SOP development, recruitment and training waves, supplier set-up, mock services and the first guest-ready inspection — drawn from numerous hotel, club and cruise-ship openings.

DE — Ein seltenes, praxiserprobtes Programm für Eröffnungsteams. Behandelt den kritischen Zeitplan, SOP-Entwicklung, Recruiting- und Trainingswellen, Lieferantenaufbau, Probeläufe und die erste gästebereite Abnahme — aus zahlreichen Hotel-, Club- und Kreuzfahrtschiff-Eröffnungen.

 

11.  Hospitality at Sea: Hotel Operations on Cruise & River Ships

DE:  Gastfreundschaft auf See: Hotelbetrieb auf Kreuzfahrt- und Flussschiffen

Format: Group training / career seminar

Audience / Zielgruppe: Crew, hotel departments on ships, and students considering a cruise career

Suggested duration / Dauer: 1–2 days

EN — The booming cruise sector explained from the inside: life and service standards on board, the rhythm of embarkation days, multicultural crews, confined-space teamwork, and why ships are an ideal fast-track career start in hospitality.

DE — Der boomende Kreuzfahrtsektor von innen erklärt: Leben und Servicestandards an Bord, der Rhythmus der Anlegetage, multikulturelle Crews, Teamarbeit auf engem Raum und warum Schiffe ein idealer Karriere-Schnellstart in der Hotellerie sind.

 

12.  Protecting the House: Loss Prevention & Hotel Security Awareness

DE:  Das Haus schützen: Schadenprävention und Sicherheitsbewusstsein im Hotel

Format: Group training

Audience / Zielgruppe: Management, front desk, housekeeping, F&B and security staff

Suggested duration / Dauer: Half day – 1 day

EN — Where losses really happen — guests, staff and weak systems — and how to build controls without creating a climate of distrust. Includes theft and fraud patterns, cash and inventory controls, data and cyber awareness, and the legally required basics of guest-safety vigilance.

DE — Wo Verluste wirklich entstehen — Gäste, Personal und schwache Systeme — und wie man Kontrollen aufbaut, ohne ein Klima des Misstrauens zu schaffen. Beinhaltet Diebstahl- und Betrugsmuster, Bargeld- und Inventarkontrollen, Daten- und Cyber-Bewusstsein sowie die rechtlich erforderlichen Grundlagen der Gästesicherheit.

 

13.  AI & Digital Tools for the Hospitality Floor

DE:  KI und digitale Werkzeuge für den Hospitality-Alltag

Format: Workshop

Audience / Zielgruppe: Staff and managers adopting PMS, POS and AI tools

Suggested duration / Dauer: Half day – 1 day

EN — A practical, non-technical workshop on where automation and AI genuinely help — check-in, personalisation, scheduling, guest messaging — and where the human touch must stay. Hands-on with the everyday digital tools staff now need to master.

DE — Ein praxisnaher, nicht-technischer Workshop darüber, wo Automatisierung und KI wirklich helfen — Check-in, Personalisierung, Dienstplanung, Gästekommunikation — und wo die menschliche Note bleiben muss. Praktische Übungen mit den digitalen Alltagswerkzeugen, die das Personal heute beherrschen muss.

 

IV. Lectures & Keynotes (Universities, Schools, Conferences)

IV. Vorträge & Keynotes (Universitäten, Schulen, Konferenzen)

14.  It´s Just Hotel Service? The Real Economics of Hospitality

DE:  Nur Hotelservice? Die wahre Ökonomie der Gastfreundschaft

Format: Keynote lecture

Audience / Zielgruppe: University and school students, industry conferences

Suggested duration / Dauer: 60–90 min

EN — An engaging keynote on why service is the true product of the hospitality industry and how small human moments translate into loyalty, reviews and revenue. Rich with real stories from hotels, clubs and cruise ships across the world.

DE — Eine fesselnde Keynote darüber, warum Service das eigentliche Produkt der Hotellerie ist und wie kleine menschliche Momente in Loyalität, Bewertungen und Umsatz umschlagen. Reich an echten Geschichten aus Hotels, Clubs und Kreuzfahrtschiffen weltweit.

 

15.  Careers Without Borders: Building an International Hospitality Career

DE:  Karriere ohne Grenzen: Eine internationale Hospitality-Laufbahn aufbauen

Format: Lecture / career talk

Audience / Zielgruppe: Hospitality and tourism students, graduates

Suggested duration / Dauer: 60–90 min

EN — A motivating, practical talk for students: how to build an international career across hotels, resorts and cruise lines, what employers really look for, how to use internships and sponsorships (e.g. the Humboldt Foundation), and how to stand out in a global market.

DE — Ein motivierender, praxisnaher Vortrag für Studierende: wie man eine internationale Karriere über Hotels, Resorts und Kreuzfahrtlinien aufbaut, worauf Arbeitgeber wirklich achten, wie man Praktika und Förderungen (z. B. die Humboldt-Stiftung) nutzt und wie man sich auf einem globalen Markt abhebt.

 

16.  The Future of Service: AI, Robots and the Irreplaceable Human

DE:  Die Zukunft des Service: KI, Roboter und der unersetzliche Mensch

Format: Keynote lecture

Audience / Zielgruppe: Universities, industry conferences, leadership audiences

Suggested duration / Dauer: 60–90 min

EN — A forward-looking keynote on how AI and automation are reshaping hospitality — and why the human element becomes more valuable, not less. Separates hype from reality and shows where future professionals should invest their skills.

DE — Eine zukunftsgerichtete Keynote darüber, wie KI und Automatisierung die Hotellerie verändern — und warum das Menschliche wertvoller wird, nicht weniger wert. Trennt Hype von Realität und zeigt, in welche Kompetenzen künftige Fachkräfte investieren sollten.

 

17.  Educating for Hospitality in Times of Crisis

DE:  Bildung für Tourismus und Hotellerie in Krisenzeiten

Format: Academic lecture / panel

Audience / Zielgruppe: Universities, faculty, tourism & hospitality programmes

Suggested duration / Dauer: 60–90 min

EN — An academic lecture on how hospitality and tourism education must adapt to crises — pandemics, labour shortages, geopolitical shifts — bridging classroom and industry. Suitable as a stand-alone lecture or a conference panel contribution.

DE — Ein akademischer Vortrag darüber, wie sich die Tourismus- und Hospitality-Ausbildung an Krisen anpassen muss — Pandemien, Arbeitskräftemangel, geopolitische Verschiebungen — und Hörsaal und Praxis verbindet. Geeignet als eigenständiger Vortrag oder Konferenz-Panelbeitrag.

 

Formats & next steps / Formate & nächste Schritte

EN — Every programme is available as a tailored group training, workshop, one-on-one coaching or keynote lecture, on-site or online, in English or German. Contact us via hotelservicemore.com for a free evaluation and a proposal matched to your team, property or institution.

DE — Jedes Programm ist als maßgeschneidertes Gruppentraining, Workshop, Eins-zu-eins-Coaching oder Keynote-Vortrag verfügbar — vor Ort oder online, auf Englisch oder Deutsch. Kontaktieren Sie uns über hotelservicemore.com (stephanbusch@hotmail.com)für eine kostenlose Bewertung und ein auf Ihr Team, Ihr Haus oder Ihre Institution zugeschnittenes Angebot.

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